Are you in a relationship or situationship? 4 things you need to know about the difference

In a recent Instagram post, relationship coach and author, Javal Bhatt highlighted the difference between a relationship and a situationship.

While you may think the rise in situationships could be linked to the infinite amount of options available on dating apps – why commit to monogamy with one person when you could be one swipe away from a more-perfect match? – Javal spoke about how the intentions and responses vary in ‘relationship vs situationship’. He shared four instances:

Sample #1

◉ Relationship: My intention is clear, I want to date to marry.

◉ Situationship: Let’s see, let’s go with the flow.

Sample #2

◉ Relationship: I don’t accept inconsistency, breadcrumbs, hot and cold behaviour, or mixed signals. I clearly communicate and walk away if needed.

◉ Situationship: I am okay with breadcrumbs and mixed signals; just don’t leave me.

Sample #3

◉ Relationship: I don’t fake to impress anyone. I want someone to accept the real me, and I am looking for a connection, not time pass.

◉ Situationship: I just want someone because I feel too lonely. So, I am okay with faking and changing myself just because I want them to like me and accept me.

Sample #4

◉ Relationship: I am okay letting them go if someone does not need me and does not reciprocate, but ignores and ghosts me. I know I want a connection. So why fear, hold or force?

◉ Situationship: I want to hold on because may be I will never find love again. I have put so much time and effort into this person.

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice.